Forty is just the right time to find your special someone to become your loyal companion and a real soul mate. It is even worthier now, when you have your emotional luggage and have come through the myriad of life lessons. No matter where are you looking for your life-time partner, some experts’ pieces of advice can become guiding in your search of everlasting love.

Below you can find the top tips for finding love in your 40s and over. These pieces of advice will help you to find the kind of relationship that meets your needs and wishes.

Get the habit of gratitude. Being grateful you feel good and you are open to attract love in your life. The acknowledgement of what you have is the foundation of bringing great things, event and people into your life.

Set ‘down to earth’ relationship goals. Define the qualities and values you want to see in your life partner. Remember that nobody’s perfect! So, try to narrow down your list. Looking for ideals will keep you single forever.

Visualize relationship success. Don’t get negative thoughts influence your life! Remember that every day couples of your age and over get married. Any age is good for love.

Take good care of yourself. Healthy lifestyle and positive mind set are the best help in finding the relationship you have been dreaming of. Our happiness and joy get reflection in our looks, energy and things that happen to us in our lives.

Follow your passions. Never wait to share that special moment with the special one when you are single. Enjoy a tour on your own and maybe you will meet your special one during your trip.

Try new things and do all the things you have always wanted to do!

Keep an open mind. Give a chance to the person that meets most of your needs and wishes, but maybe looking different from what you expect from your future partner.

Learn from your former relationships. Being in the ‘middle age’ you perfectly know what is important in life and relationship. Get it right now, learning from your past mistakes. It is time to change!

Do flirt. Men love when women are flirting, easy-going and fun. For an immediate connection make an eye contact and smile. If you need to work on your flirting skills, try that at the store, shopping center, etc.

First learn to love yourself. Self-appreciation is a very important step when receiving and giving love. The value you place on yourself is returned by others. How anyone can love you, if you don’t love yourself?